How to make perfect your relationship

                                        RELATIONSHIP

Asal me relationship he kya? 

          Relationship har tarha ka ho sakta he , maa-bete ka, bhai-behen ka,baap-bete ka , dosti ka or bahat sare rista ka. lekin ham sab relationship  ka matlab sirf boyfriend-girlfriend ka samajhte he .Ye koi badi bat nahi he, ham jo dekhte he , jo sunte he, jo ham sikhate he ham wahi to sikhte he.hum ne bachpan se suna ki relationship ka matlab BF & GF  hota he to ham wahi mante aarehe hain.

          To chaliye aj ham usi ko Relationship maan kar  ussi Topic ke uper ye siation suru kartehe.Or janenge ki kaise hamare relationship behtar ho sakta he.

           Agar aap ke pas or koi bichar he to app mujhe comment pe bata sakte hain. Or agar aap ka koi sawal ho tab bhi aap mujhe comment pe puch sakte hain.

Relationship me ek cheez chahiye or ek cheez nahi chahiye  , lekin ulta hi hota he , jo chahiye bo nahi hota he or jo nahi chahiye bo hota he

        Relationship me jyada tar BF GF  me ladai jhagda hota rehta he.Ye jhagda hota kyun he? Zahir si bat he ki misunderstanding ke waje se.Ye to sab jante hoge. lekin hamare zindagi me ye mainye nahi rakhta hai ki hame kitna pata he ,balki ye mainye rakhta he ki hame jitna pata he hum apni zindagi me kitna use karte he."man lijiye ki koi app ko pucha ki bhai bike chalani aati he to aap bologe ki bike chalane me kya he bas handle hi to pakad ke baithna he or accelerator modna he.to bo fir se puche ki chalana to atta  he na? to aap bologe ki nahi chalna to nahin aata he lekin  pata he ki kese chalate he." to bhai aise apata hone se fayda jab aap ko uska istamal hi na kia ho.

1.EGO

        Jyada tar Relationship pe illogical arguments hote  rahete he. "kyun hote he?" ye sawal ki jawab koi dhund neki koshish kar ta hi nahi.Bas sab lage padte he jhagda karne me.

  Actually jhagda isiliye hota he ki dono hamesa jitna chahaten he. sab chahate hi he ki jeetne ke liye.man ego ajata ki are me usse kese har sakta hun !  koi har nahi chahate he sab jitne me lage pade he.asal me jhagda ho raha he to kisika to galti to hoga.lekin koi agree nehi karta kihan ye mera galti he.bich me EGO ajata he.sab sochte he ki agar 'me apna galti man lun to main chota ho jaoge'. jab ki asliyat dono ko pata he ki kiska galti he.kyun ki wahan pe 2 log hi he ,To galti kisi ak ka hi hoga .Or galti man lene se koi chota nahi ho jaoge, Balki aap ka uper ak positive effect ayega ki "ye  jab bhi  galti karta he to man leta he".

2.UNDERSTANDING

    Problem ye bhi ak he ki hamare understanding me problem he.jyada tar aap sab ne suna hoga ya bola hoga ki "tum to mere ko samjhte hi nahi" matlab aap usko samajh te he, lekin bo aap ko nahi samajhti /samajhta.matlab aap usko samajh gaye , or bo aap ko  nahi samajh paya.ham apne aap ko itna samajhdar kyun samajh te he?Agar hau samajh gaye to samne wala bewakoof  thodi na he! Bo bhi samajh jayega.ham  khud se samne wale ko samajh jaye usse understanding kehte or hamare point of view se samne wale ko samjhana usse argument kehte he. hame samne wale ko samjhane ki koi jarurat nehi he ,bo khud samajh jayenge.lekin ham esi me jud jate hen ki pehele tu pehele tu.kuch bhi badal ne  ki suruat khud se hoti he.

     Relationship is not a dead object it is a living thing and every living thing needs attention  from other side. just example ek chara he usko ap kehin pe laga diya or chod diye  to bo sukh jayega, uski daily pani chahiye or care chahiye.relationship kuch aisa hi he.living thing me kya hota he ki roj kuch alag dekhne ko milta he. In relationship me bhi aap ko kuch aise hi utar chadhav dekhne milega, to hum har situation ke liye pehle ready rehna  chahiye. kyunki aap agar pehle se mentally prepared ho to bo situation ko thoda behtar se sambhal sakte ho.

      Hame relationship se roj kuch alag milega or or ham ye karna  he ki roj usse sikh ke usse kese better banana he bo dekhna he . yese kar kar keasa din ayega ki bo ak balance point pe pahunch jayega tab bo effortlessly chalta jayega.