FEAR
1. WHAT IS FEAR?
2. HOW FEAR CREATED?
3. HOW TO OVERCOME FROM FEAR?
I am not telling about ghost fear. if this fear is your problem, I can't do anything. There is god only can help you out.
Part of a joke. I am telling about everybody mentally fear.
Fear exists in everybody life. but mostly not thinks about "what is fear?"
In our life, there are lots of fear we have. for that, we can't do what we want. we look for our society,
and most people fear is "what will people say".
And the second fear is " can I do that". I will give you an example,
when a child starts walking, many times he falls down but he never left walking because the child has no fear of what will people say? or can I do it or not?
Fear is a state of our mind, which is created by our mind just because of attachments and our negative thinkings.
if we think to do something. we also thinking about its negative side. if I will not get the success, what will happen? what people think about me? the other reason is the attachment.
just think, if you have car /bike and you attach with it. if you attach with it then you have fear to lost it. There is happen earthquake in many places but you didn't afraid, but just think next earthquake is at your place. " what happens?" is there fear created in your mind? this fear is created because of your attachment, Attachment with your family, friends, house, etc." the more you attach, the more you afraid". The parents have fear for their children's career because of attachment. students have fear for the exam because they have the attachment with the result.
What is the solution?
- Don't look at people what they are saying. Do what you want. if you will not get success, no problem you will get experience, Then again try.
- Don't attach with the result, just concentrate your work.never rapacity to win.
- Never compare with other.
- love your work, not result. if your work is the study then love to your study. not to the result. if you are a father love to your children, not his career, support him with what he wants to do.
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